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Cohabitation

Cohabitation
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A living arrangement in which an unmarried couple lives together in a long-term relationship that

resembles a marriage.

Couples cohabit, rather than marry, for a variety of reasons. They may want to test their compatibility

before they commit to a legal union. They may want to maintain their single status for financial

reasons. In some cases, such as those involving gay or lesbian couples, or individuals already

married to another person, the law does not allow them to marry. In other cases, the partners may

feel that marriage is unnecessary. Whatever the reasons, between 1970 and 1990, the number of

couples living together outside of marriage quadrupled, from 523,000 to nearly 3 million. These

couples face some of the same legal issues as married couples, as well as some issues that their

married friends need never consider.

In most places, it is legal for unmarried people to live together, although some Zoning laws prohibit

more than three unrelated people from inhabiting a house or apartment. A few states still prohibit

fornication, or sexual relations between an unmarried man and woman, but such laws are no

longer enforced. Even in the early twenty-first century, some states continue to prohibit Sodomy,

which includes sexual relations between people of the same sex. Although these laws are rarely

enforced, the U. S. Supreme Court upheld the constitutionality of these sodomy statutes as applied

to same-sex couples in Bowers v. Hardwick, 478 U.S. 186, 106 S. Ct. 2841, 92 L. Ed. 2d 140

(1986). The Court reconsidered the same issue 17 years later, however, and decided that a Texas

sodomy law that applied specifically to homosexual conduct violated the due process clause of the

Fourteenth Amendment (lawrence v. texas, 539 U.S. ___, 123 S. Ct. 2472,156 L. Ed. 2d 508

[2003]). Advocates of Gay and Lesbian Rights viewed the case as a victory for their cause.

The law traditionally has been biased in favor of marriage. Public policy supports marriage as

necessary to the stability of the family, the basic societal unit. To preserve and encourage marriage,

the law reserves many rights and privileges to married persons. Cohabitation carries none of those

rights and privileges. It has been said that cohabitation has all of the headaches of marriage without

any of the benefits. Cohabiting couples have little guidance as to their legal rights in such areas as

property ownership, responsibility for debts, custody, access to health care and other benefits, and

survivorship.

Family Law experts advise cohabiting couples to address these and other issues in a written

cohabitation agreement, similar to a Premarital Agreement. The contract should outline how the

couple will divide expenses and own property, whether they will maintain joint or separate bank

accounts, and how their assets will be distributed if one partner dies or leaves the relationship.

Property acquired during cohabitation, such as real estate, home furnishings, antiques, artwork,

china, silver, tools, and sports equipment, may be contested if partners separate or if one of them

dies. To avoid this, the agreement should clearly outline who is entitled to what.

When cohabiting couples separate, division of assets often becomes a contentious issue. In the

past, courts refused to enforce agreements between unmarried couples to share income or assets,

holding that such agreements were against public policy. In 1976, the California Supreme Court

decided Marvin v. Marvin, 18 Cal. 3d 660, 134 Cal. Rptr. 815, 557 P.2d 106, holding that

agreements between cohabiting couples to share income received during the time they live together

can be legally binding and enforceable. The highly publicized suit between actor Lee Marvin and his

live-in companion, Michelle Triola Marvin, was the first of a series of "palimony" suits that have

become more numerous since the 1980s. The plaintiff in a palimony suit must prove that the

agreement of financial support is not a meretricious agreement, that is, one made in exchange for a

promise of sexual relations. Courts refuse to enforce meretricious contracts because of their

similarity to contracts for prostitution.

The only way to guarantee that a valid agreement of support or division of property exists is to have

it in writing. In the Marvin case, the plaintiff, who asked for $1.6 million, was awarded only $104,000.

An appeals court revoked that amount and found that the plaintiff had failed to show that she and

the defendant had an agreement (Marvin v. Marvin, 122 Cal. App. 3d 871, 176 Cal. Rptr. 555 [Cal.

Ct. App. 1981]). Conversely, when tennis star Martina Navratilova separated from live-in lover Judy

Nelson in 1993, Nelson filed a $16 million palimony suit, claiming that Navratilova reneged on a

promise to share whatever the couple accumulated during their relationship. A signed and

videotaped 1986 cohabitation agreement supported Nelson's claim, and Navratilova settled out of

court for an undisclosed amount.

Cohabiting parents may face legal difficulties if they separate without a written parenting agreement.

An unmarried father must acknowledge Paternity by filing an Affidavit with the state legitimating his

child and establishing his parental relationship. Likewise, both parents must actively participate in

the raising of the child in order to have a legitimate claim to custody or visitation. By legitimating their

child and being involved in the child's upbringing, unmarried parents establish their right to seek

custody or visitation if the family breaks up. Legitimation is also important for inheritance purposes. If

an unmarried father dies without a will, his legitimated child can freely inherit his estate (see Trimble

v. Gordon, 430 U.S. 762, 97 S. Ct. 1459, 52 L. Ed. 2d 31 [1977], which held that a signed statement

establishing paternity of a child born out of wedlock is adequate protection of the child's inheritance

rights). Of course, the best way to guarantee the distribution of assets to children is through a

written will.

Cohabiting couples may face difficulties when one of them becomes ill and requires hospitalization

or long-term care. The case of Sharon Kowalski and Karen Thompson illustrates this problem.

Kowalski and Thompson lived together for four years before Kowalski sustained serious head

injuries in a 1983 automobile accident. She was left paralyzed and seriously brain damaged, but

able to communicate. Kowalski's parents refused to allow Thompson to see her or to participate in

decisions about her treatment. In 1984, Kowalski's father was awarded guardianship of Kowalski

(In re Kowalski, 382 N.W.2d 861 [Minn. Ct. App. 1986] and the family continued to frustrate

Thompson's efforts to see or assist Kowalski. In 1991, Kowalski's father voluntarily gave up his

guardianship for medical reasons, and a Minnesota trial court awarded guardianship to Karen

Tomberlin, a family friend whom the court considered a "neutral third party." The Minnesota Court of

Appeals reversed the trial court, and after a seven-year battle, Thompson was finally granted

guardianship of Kowalski (In re Kowalski, 478 N.W.2d 790 [Minn. Ct. App. 1991]). The court held

that Kowalski had "sufficient capacity" to express her preference as to a guardian and that she had

consistently said she wanted to be with Thompson. The court also noted the duration of the

couple's relationship as well as the fact that they had exchanged rings and named each other as

insurance beneficiaries before Kowalski's accident.

Cohabiting couples can avoid such conflicts by executing certain documents, including a durable

Power of Attorney and a medical power of attorney. A durable power of attorney grants an

unmarried partner the necessary authority to make decisions in the event of physical or mental

disability of the other partner. It goes further than a general power of attorney in that it specifically

allows one partner to continue making decisions even if the other partner becomes incapacitated. A

medical power of attorney allows one partner to make decisions regarding medical treatment for the

other. If the partners have specific instructions about funeral arrangements, these too should be put

in writing. In addition, a written will or trust allows partners to specify the distribution of their property,

including life insurance benefits, IRAs, and bank accounts. Partners may also name their preferred

trustee or executor.

Many cohabiting heterosexual couples believe that the law will recognize their relation-ship as a

Common-Law Marriage with the legal protections and financial benefits of marriage. However, only

Alabama, Colorado, the District of Columbia, Georgia, Idaho, Iowa, Kansas, Montana, Ohio,

Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, Texas, and Utah recognize common-law

marriage. In those states, a man and woman who live together and represent themselves as

married may be given common-law recognition. Once a common-law marriage has been

established, it must be dissolved through Divorce. Cohabiting couples who live in a state that

recognizes common-law marriage and do not wish to be married should execute a statement that

they are not married in order to avoid a later finding that a common-law marriage existed.

In the 1990s, a few courts began to recognize the familial ties of unmarried couples. In Braschi v.

Stahl Associates, 74 N.Y.2d 201, 543 N.E.2d 49, 544 N.Y.S.2d 784 (1989), New York State's

highest court found that a homosexual man and his deceased life partner had constituted a family

for purposes of New York City's rent control ordinance. The court found that in this case, the term

family should be construed broadly and should encompass contemporary realities, including

unmarried adult partners in a long-term, committed relationship that shows mutual sharing of the

mundane tasks of everyday life. Similarly, in Dunphy v. Gregor, 261 N.J. Super. 110, 617 A.2d 1248

(N.J. 1992), the court found that a woman who had witnessed the events leading to her fiancé's

death had standing to sue for the emotional damage she suffered as a result. Previously, suits such

as this (called bystander liability suits) were limited to those who were married or had blood ties to

the victim. However, the court in Dunphy found that the plaintiff met the requirement of "intimate

familial relationship," noting that the plaintiff and her fiancé had lived together for several years, that

there was a high degree of mutual dependence in their relationship, and that they contributed to and

shared a common life.

Since the 1980s, a growing number of states and municipalities have passed laws allowing

unmarried couples, both heterosexual and homosexual, to register as domestic partners. Some

cities have established a domestic partner registry, while others extend certain benefits to domestic

partners even if the city does not provide a registry. The state of California leads the nation in the

number of cities and counties that provide benefits to domestic partners, offer domestic partner

registries, or both. Cities providing domestic partner benefits include New York City, Los Angeles,

Chicago, Boston, and Philadelphia. The ordinances and statues in these cities allow couples to

register as domestic partners, and to dissolve their partnerships if they separate.

Two 1995 court decisions declared particular domestic partner ordinances invalid. In Lilly v. City of

Minneapolis, 527 N.W. 2d 107, the Minnesota Court of Appeals struck down a Minneapolis city

council resolution authorizing reimbursement to city employees for health care insurance costs for

same-sex domestic partners and for blood relatives not classified as dependents under state law.

The court held that the resolution was beyond the scope of the council's authority and lacked legal

force. Likewise, in City of Atlanta v. McKinney, 265 Ga. 161, 454 S.E.2d 517, the Supreme Court of

Georgia held that the city of Atlanta had exceeded its authority when it had extended employee

benefits to persons who did not qualify as dependents under state law.

Some same-sex cohabitants face other types of legal challenges. In Garcia v. Garcia, 60 P.3d 1174

(Utah Ct. App. 2002), the Utah Court of Appeals held that an ex-wife's involvement in a same-sex

relationship constituted cohabitation for the purpose of determining whether the exhusband's

Alimony payments should be terminated. Under Utah law, a court's order requiring alimony

payments from one spouse to the other terminates upon proof that the spouse receiving alimony is

cohabiting with another person. The ex-wife allegedly maintained a long-term relationship with

another woman, during which time she shared a common residency and had sexual contact. The

trial court held that the statute's definition of cohabitation applied only to relationships between

members of the opposite sex. The appeals court disagreed, holding that the term "sexual contact" in

the statute also included such contact between members of the same sex, and reversed the trial

court's decision.

Further readings
American Bar Association. 1994. Family Legal Guide. New York: Random House.

Dailey, Patricia A. 1994. "Domestic Partnerships in the Nineties." Delaware Lawyer (summer).

Duff, Johnette, and George G. Truitt. 1992. The Spousal Equivalent Handbook: A Legal and

Financial Guide to Living Together. New York: Penguin, NAL/Dutton.

Ihara, Toni, Robin Leonard, and Ralph Warner. 1994. The Living Together Kit. 7th ed. Berkeley,

Calif.: Nolo Press.

Richardson, David G. 1993. "Family Rights for Unmarried Couples." Kansas Journal of Law and

Public Policy (spring).

Samuels, M. Dee. 1995. "You Don't Have to Be Married to Be Legal." Compleat Lawyer (winter).

Wallman, Lester. 1994. Cupid, Couples, and Contracts: A Guide to Living Together, Prenuptial

Agreements, and Divorce. New York: MasterMedia.

Cross-references
Parent and Child.

West's Encyclopedia of American Law, edition 2. Copyright 2008 The Gale Group, Inc. All rights

reserved.
cohabitation
n. living together in the same residence, generally either as husband and wife or for an extended

period of time as if the parties were married. Cohabitation implies that the parties are having sexual

intercourse while living together, but the definition would not apply to a casual sexual encounter.

Legal tests have been filed to determine whether cohabitation would refer to same sex partners,

which is important to those involved since "cohabitation" is the basis of certain rights and privileges

under various laws, regulations and contracts. The findings of the courts vary on this question, but

the trend is to include long-standing homosexual relationships as cohabitation.

Copyright © 1981-2005 by Gerald N. Hill and Kathleen T. Hill. All Right reserved.
cohabitation(Living together), noun abiding tooether, act of dwelling together, alliance, living

together in sexual intimacy, lodging together, lodging together as hussand and wife, occupying the

same domicile, residing tooether, rooming together
Associated concepts: cohabiting in a state of adultery, illicit cohabitation, lewd and lascivious

cohabitation
Foreign phrases: Nuptias non concubitus sed consensus facit.Not cohabitation but consent makes

the valid marriage.
cohabitation(Married state), noun act of living tooether as husband and wife, act of pairing, bond of

matriiony, conjugal bliss, conjugality, connubiality, coverture, domestication, legal relation of

spouses to each other, legal union of a man and a woman, marriage, married status, matrimony,

nuptial bond, nuptial tie, state of matrimony, union, vinculo matrimonii, wedded state, wedded status,

wedlock
Associated concepts: bigamous cohabitation, cohabiting in a state of adultery, matrimonial

cohabitation, polygamous cohabitation
Foreign phrases: Nuptias non concubitus sed consensus facit.Not cohabitation but consent makes

the marriage.
See also: marriage, matrimony
Burton's Legal Thesaurus, 4E. Copyright © 2007 by William C. Burton. Used with permission of The

McGraw-Hill Companies, Inc.
COHABITATION. Living together.
     2. The law presumes that husband and wife cohabit, even after a voluntary separation has taken

place between them; but where there has been a divorce a mensa et thoro, or a sentence of

separation, the presumption then arises that they have obeyed the sentence or decree, and do not

live together.
     3. A criminal cohabitation will not be presumed by the proof of a single act of criminal intercourse

between a man and woman not married. 10 Mass. R. 153.
     4. When a woman is proved to cohabit with a man and to assume his name with his consent, he

will generally be responsible for her debts as if she had been his wife; 2 Esp. R. 637; 1 Campb. R.

245; this being presumptive evidence of marriage; B. N. P. 114; but this liability will continue only

while they live together, unless she is actually his were. 4 Campb. R. 215.
     5. In civil actions for criminal conversation with the plaintiff's wife, after the husband and wife

have separated, the plaintiff will not in general be entitled to recover. 1 Esp. R. 16; S. C. 5 T. R. 357;

Peake's Cas. 7, 39; sed vide 6 East, 248; 4 Esp. 39.

A Law Dictionary, Adapted to the Constitution and Laws of the United States. By John Bouvier.

Published 1856.




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